Some info first….I prefer to wait until my children turn 3 before I make any attempts to potty train, which usually means that it will only take one weeks time before they are accident free and dry through the night. Miss G is currently a little over 2 1/2 years old (she’ll be 3 in March), and the most feisty and determined spirit of any of my children.
Miss G has been fighting to use the potty for some time now (and no, I am not using the word “fighting” lightly here). She must have paid rapt attention while Mr. M was potty training because she has been determined to be like the “big kids” and use the potty herself ever since then. And heaven help those that try to stop her from taking off her diaper and going, she won’t let it happen without putting up a really good fight. But I was fighting just as hard to keep her diaper on, I didn’t think she was ready or going to actually use the potty. I was so wrong.
Several days ago, during one of her many clothing optional moments at home (what can I say, I am the mother to several hard core little nudists) she ran to the potty telling me she had to tinkle. I followed, thinking it was nothing more than a copycat moment. She hopped right up and proceeded to tinkle, smiling like crazy. She was so proud of herself, and I could only stand there in total disbelief….WHAT?!?! She tinkled in the potty??!?! So I did the only sensible thing and put her back in a diaper and convinced myself this was crazy and couldn’t possibly be happening. But after watching her for a few more days, I saw that it wasn’t a one time thing, she was still ripping off her diaper, running to the potty and actually tinkling in it, all without my help or prompting. So I decided to stop fighting it, and accept what Miss G knew all along….she was ready.
We went to the store the next day, and with Miss G’s two biggest loves right now being Dora and mermaids, she picked out underwear with ‘Dora the Explorer’ as a mermaid and ‘Ariel’ from ‘The Little Mermaid’ on them. I washed and dried them, and the very next morning (11-27-07 for her baby book) Miss G started her first day with “big girl pants”. She has done phenomenally, and it has been a very good experience so far. I am happy to report that while she has had a few accidents, on the whole she is dry and listening to the right signals, and will go to the bathroom without any prompting from me. She has also never had any “two-sies” accidents and we have even gone shopping and still returned home dry. Hooray for little milestones!
Being a bit younger than my other children were when they started, I know this will take a little longer than the usual one weeks time we have had before, but I am ready for it. We have thrown away her diapers, and are ready to take on the potty training experience with her, and are happily cheering her on the whole way. I also know that none of this is unusual for a child of her age to do this, but for me, it’s just not something I expected one of my own children to initiate, but I am so grateful that she has. To only have one left in diapers? Crazy! So here we go, making our way into uncharted waters (well at least they are for me). I am just so proud of my little girl as she joins the ranks of the “big kids” and makes her own way to the potty.